Yesterday was the winter solstice. Dark and cold. Winter was never my favorite season. And with age (70 anyway) I seem to like the cold less and less. Several retired friends sent their Christmas cards from Florida, the sunshine state? At least one used the term “snow birds” to describe their exodus. Other retired friends have sold their home and “downsized” moving into a smaller house or unit in a complex.
I think about moving; and have even thought about winters in Florida. But? I don’t think either will happen this year. I’ll admit I’m a small town, traditional, slow to change kind of guy. There are things we don’t like about 121 N Delaware and could draw up a list. Flooding is a major drawback. And now that we’re elevated, there is stair climbing. But as long as we can do it; exercise is good. And there are other issues. But for me there is a comfort in that it has been and still is “ours.”
Winter in Florida sounds interesting. Some buy; others rent. How long do you want to stay? I’ve been thinking about it. Obviously avoiding Philadelphia’s winter weather is a plus. Meeting new people; new friends would be welcomed. New scenery; places to explore; sounds like vacation.
Diane’s parents had a trailer in Briny Breezes, a bit north of Boca Raton, south of Palm Beach. Diane visited several times with Jenny but for years I had no interest. Finally I made the trip. In the 1920s , Briny Breezes was a community of silver Airstream trailers. Lots of fisherman. In the 80s, when Smith’s wintered there, it was an incorporated town, with a community center on the beach, swimming pool, post office and a few shops nearby. Most residents were retired “snow birds.”
I came to like Briny. It’s been the location for several movies, “Folks,” and “In Her Shoes.” Check it out. Last year Robert DiNero was filming scenes from “The Comedians” there. Smith’s trailer was across the road from the community beach. You could see the ocean from their trailer. I loved the snorkeling. There were good restaurants on the Intercoastal. We explored Palm Beach and other towns; made trips to Miami, Key West and the Everglades. I saw the “senior” guys gather for coffee in the morning, go fishing or hang out at the pool. Not bad I thought; I could retire here.
But I’m not ready to be a snow bird yet! I actually like a nice snow fall. It looks and feels good. I’ll admit we have too much wet cold weather in the northeast but we also get some beautiful snowfalls. Bucks County (and adjacent New Jersey) has a lot to offer. We have so many places to walk (ourselves and Nala), starting behind the house on the canal. There are dozens of farms, markets and speciality stores we enjoy. Despite major development in much of the county; there are still one lane bridges and dirt roads. Several days ago we took a delightful drive in upper Bucks to an Alpaca farm. Lunch was a sandwich from Tabora Farm shared at Lake Galena.
We might find similar “explores” in Florida but those at home have a history, tradition. Example: making apple butter, apple sauce and crisp from Solebury Orchards. Example: buying lamb chops from Fairview farm in Pineville where I worked summers in the 1970s. Example: a special dinner on a crisp night at Hamilton’s Grill in Lambertville.
In addition there are restaurants, historic sites, museums, theatres, and shops in Philadelphia and the surrounding region that are part of our life. We even enjoy a beach trip to the Jersey shore in fall or winter. Showy owls are visiting Island Beach State Park in the winter.
Most important are friends and relatives who live in the area. Particularly our grand kids — Eli and Viv. We want to be around as they grow up. Last week we took them to “Annie” at the Walnut Street theatre. In early January we will go to the Arden to see Peter Pan; probably have lunch in Old City and buy chocolate at Shane’s. Christmas dinner will be at our house with them. They join us on winter walks and there are usually a few “sleep overs” when mom and dad go out to dinner. Retired or even three months in Florida seems too long. We’d miss them. At least for the next few, maybe ten years?
Despite my current skepticism about moving soon and retiring or wintering in Florida, my attitude may change. We do need to get rid of stuff — harder for me than Diane. And we should consider, maybe look at possible places in the area. Where would we like to live? A project for 2018!
For the immediate, I’ll enjoy my afternoons with a glass of wine and book in front of the Vermont castings. Keeping the home fire burning.