As I’ve previously written, words can ring in you head, then echo, again and again. “Maintenance” is one that won’t go away for me. I not talking car but body, life maybe. I use “maintenance “to describe the daily, routine, repetitive, mundane activities I need to do each day, week, month. It seems since retirement, “maintenance” has become increasingly important and time consuming. I generally get up about 6 a.m. and for several hours I am consumed with “maintenance.”
I have a morning ritual in the bathroom, washing up, dressing, attending to my two stomas. I recently bought a radio for my bedroom so I can listen to NPR or some other dial discovery during the routine. Then to the kitchen where I attend to pills. Thanks to my functionalist doctor, I take five prescription pills, but about 17 different supplements. Some morning, some evening. Coffee is next, unless I’m doing tea. I check email, Facebook, read the Inquirer online. This may lead to some FB posts. I almost always write in a daily journal. Some days I may also write in journals for books read, movies, restaurants, travel, lists and a few others.
It may be close to 8. I’ve tried during two hours to slide in additional “maintenance” as i move from task to task, room to room. There is laundry to do. Some days bedding. The dishwasher needs to be emptied. Trash, recycling and compost garbage taken downstairs. I’ll bring up some wood. General clean up or house organization. Most are these are squeezed in before 9. Some days I’ll decide on a walk. A health imperative, yes “maintenance.” My typical walk along the canal is to Scammel’s bridge about 3/4 mile in 40 minutes. On nice days I sit outside for a while. More wood carried up to the deck.
Approaching 9:30-10:30 I need to decide what’s happening for the rest of the morning. I could decide to read. Nice weather, out on the deck. Or do I have additional “maintenance.”
There are orders I need to place for pills, supplements, ostomey supplies, and C-Pac supplies. I also order a lot of other things from Amazon and other online suppliers — dried mushrooms, garlic, fig preserves, nasal spray, hand lotion, shampoo. You get the idea. Maybe I’m ready to order a few books. I also may take time to respond to other activities online, buying tickets, signing up for a zoom lecture, making a lunch reservation. I read periodicals, Time, Down East, Bucks County, Smithsonian, Historic Preservation, River Towns and Yankee. I usually send digital old photographs to my sisters and friends; post some on FB. Some posts are political in response to what I’ve read; others nostalgia are fell good; some are photographs. It’s probably past 11.
I may have stopped for breakfast. Maybe pancakes or scrambled eggs. Smoothies are a common breakfast. Water pick teeth. Did I need to make yogurt? Depending on the season, morning “maintenance” could involve harvesting and then using or preserving garden produce. From roasting tomatoes, making sauce, freezing peppers, shredding and freezing zucchini, even cooked a froze some eggplants this year. Sometimes I may make biscuits or bread. Less now due to low carb diet. Morning “ maintenance” may continue up to lunch. There is less in the afternoon which finds me reading, writing, napping.
Doctor appointments are longer term maintenance. I see a cardiologist and surgeon at Penn in Philadelphia twice a year. My local GP I see every few months. He does blood work twice a year and regularly I meet with a nutritionist in his office. Dentist is several times a year. One a year for my apnea doc. These are just routine time consuming check ups; more if I have an issue. I remember one of my sisters complaining about all my father’s doctor appointments that didn’t reveal anything new.
Seasonally “maintenance” can involve stacking wood. Planting, weeding, harvesting in the garden. Or maybe doing some prep work for someone doing house projects. I now have Paul who cuts the grass and other yard projects. Pete who does carpentry, major cleaning and paint projects. We’ve had the need for roofers, deck and siding contractors, and masons in the past nine years of retirement. All involve at least organizational work on my part. Amazing that I did much of this on my own. My bottom line is that “maintenance” takes many hours each, day, week and month. I feel fairly satisfied if I don’t let things slide. Of course then I have to decide how to use the rest of my time. There are long term projects and leisure activities. A constant tension. One day at a time.